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Because Humor Is Not In The School Curriculum


by turfgrrl


June 7th, 2008 · 93 Comments

Over in Westport …

chaucerSarah Friedson, 17, walked her chocolate-colored pony, Cocoa, to Staples High School to celebrate her last day of school, holding a sign that read “Save Gas” on one side, “Staples 2008″ on the other. Her father, Ronald Friedson, drove behind in the rain, his vehicle’s blinkers flashing.

When they reached the high school parking lot, Friedson’s friends flocked to the pony to pet him. School administrators, citing concern for the students’ safety, called police.

Both father and daughter were charged with breach of peace, a misdemeanor. In a statement released hours after the pair’s arrest, Westport police said both had ignored a security guard’s warning to keep the pony off school grounds, along with an earlier warning from school administrators.

Ronald Friedson, 50, said the 20-year-old pony, blind in one eye from a cataract, is incapable of harming anyone. “It’s a fat old pony,” he said. “He looks like something out of a cartoon. The only danger is if you’re a carrot.”

For many years, Friedson sold riding helmets and saddles at the Tack Room in town but has since moved his business online. Cocoa lives with the family on a four-acre former riding school.

The elder Friedson accused the school of overreacting. “I said to the kids, ‘Watch out for the bureaucrats shutting down your right to free speech.’”

Apparently school officials were overly influenced by Chaucer back in the day.

source: Courant, Westport Teen, Dad Charged Following Pony Prank, By KIM MARTINEAU, June 7, 2008

Tags: Education · Westport

93 Responses so far “Because Humor Is Not In The School Curriculum”


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  • 1 Retired from DRG I // Jun 7, 2008 at 1:10 pm

    It is truly unfortunate that administrators and security guards have to see every little pony as a possible law suit in the making-
    it was funny and a great thing to do for your last day in the current climate.
    The trouble lies in setting a precedent.
    Then administrators can not say no to other seemingly like minded ideas that may pose more of a danger.
    the statement that students crowded ’round near the edge of the campus- could portend an issue-
    Looking under every rock for safety and not allowing the thinking of each person’s own brain- is what we’ve gotten to-
    there may be board policy of no pets to school. Policy carries the rule of law…
    If one student had an allergic reaction to something the pony ate or stepped in- BOE would have Hell to pay.

    Sad but true.

  • 2 Zelda // Jun 7, 2008 at 1:26 pm

    To Mr. Freidson and daughter Sarah:

    I am not a Westporter but I must say, I think you’re statement was very appropriate in a time where most people think nothing of wasting resources. Sarah, it’s reassuring to know that the youth of America is going green (or at least trying to!). Good Luck to you!

    Sounds like you two got hit with a ton of horse S***!

  • 3 anon // Jun 7, 2008 at 1:54 pm

    She was warned by security and administrators before she brought the horse on school property and did it anyway? Sounds like she was given ample opportunity to avoid the problem.

  • 4 ex-cop // Jun 7, 2008 at 3:20 pm

    I assume there is more to the story than shows here. It is hard to imagine a Westport Police officer making arrests(2) and calling this incident a breach of peace. It may have been appropriate for the school administrator to ask the pony be removed from the property. It may have been innappropriate for the pony owner to make a big issue out of it. It is still hard to imagine a police officer unable to resolve this without arresting anyone. I would love to hear the rest of the story.

  • 5 Anonymous // Jun 7, 2008 at 3:25 pm

    Most positive change is brought about by people who are willing to stand up to authority. Nelson Mandel, Lech Walesa, to name a few. What’s the big deal about letting the kid ride the pony to school? Because I said so…? Did it REALLY pose a danger to other students?

  • 6 Anonymous // Jun 7, 2008 at 3:41 pm

    Sounds much like the cupcake fiasco. However there has to be more to this story because Staples High School is pretty accommodating and I can’t imagine Westport police arresting someone for that particular incident unless there is more to the story like possibly an altercation etc. Maybe the father or both wised off to the principal or the cops, or both

  • 7 Anonymous // Jun 7, 2008 at 3:42 pm

    . . .and if there has do be discipline, why a full ten days? Did someone overreact here?

  • 8 Anonymous // Jun 7, 2008 at 3:49 pm

    Ten full days? Where did you read that? If its ten full day suspension then this child is being barred from taking her finals. Does that mean they will allow her to take them at another time or does that mean she fails them? This is bizzare. The classes at Staples are all half days from here on in so that would bring her past the last day of school.

  • 9 Anne Sullivan // Jun 7, 2008 at 4:35 pm

    Yup, 10 full days out of school. That’s the standard suspension. So, for example, if you were caught smoking pot at Staples, you would be suspended for 10 days. Personally, I don’t think the punishment is fitting the crime here. Why not have her punishment be community service at the school for five days, perhaps weeding or landscaping?Who did she really harm with this prank? And her father was there with his truck. The good news is that she isn’t graduating anyway – she’s one of the 100’s of kids the Staple’s guidance department screwed up by not checking her schedule during the past four years – so she doesn’t have enough credits yet to graduate. I applaud her parent’s decision not to have her drop out of Staples and go to Weston’s night school so that she could “make up” the missing credits.

    By the way, my son who attends Staples said the pony was very cute! He was able to pet it.

  • 10 Anonymous // Jun 7, 2008 at 4:46 pm

    Thats rediculous! What about their in-house supension policy so she could at least take her finals. This only puts her that much farther behind. They do have inhouse suspension and while she would not be allowed to take the exams in her classrooms, she could take them in supervised in house. They would have to suspend an awful lot of kids for smoking pot I would think since I hear its the norm for many of them. Bringing a pony to the parking lot in no way warrants 10 day suspension. Ann Sulivan, you live in Norwalk and your son goes to Staples? Thats gotta be pretty hefty.

  • 11 Anne Sullivan // Jun 7, 2008 at 4:51 pm

    Great article on the front page of the CT post.

  • 12 Anne Sullivan // Jun 7, 2008 at 4:52 pm

    Never said where my husband lives, lol. There are some positives after divorce…

  • 13 Anonymous // Jun 7, 2008 at 5:03 pm

    That is a perk! Staples is a good school but they have just as many problems as the rest but not so much on the violent nature as other things. i wasn’t implying anything just happen to know that if you are lucky enough to get a kid in there that doesn’t live in Westport, the fee is quite hefty!

  • 14 Anne Sullivan // Jun 7, 2008 at 5:11 pm

    No problem, Anonymous. I’m enjoying the blog because when the discourse is great, it’s sizzling!!! Norwalk has so much incredible potential for turning the Titanic around – I’ve never worked/lived anywhere like Norwalk – there’s so much heart and energy here.

  • 15 Ethel Mertz // Jun 7, 2008 at 9:45 pm

    Cupcakes, horses. Something’s wrong here. Norwalk’s wedged near these towns? What’s Darien going to do? How about Wilton and New Canaan? I leave Stamford out because it’s a City. But there’s something wrong with these little towns. What could it be? I know I wouldn’t want to live in any of them because they’d kick me out. They don’t like my kind. I’d cause problems. I’ll stay in the city that I love. There’s enough diversity here. And what I love the MOST is that these suburbanites love the city too.

  • 16 Anonymous // Jun 8, 2008 at 12:04 am

    See what happens when you horse around! She should have hoofed it out of there. She better pony up and get a lawyer.

  • 17 Saddlebags // Jun 8, 2008 at 9:34 am

    #16 - That’s the MANE idea. Stable thinking!

  • 18 Anonymous // Jun 8, 2008 at 10:53 am

    Hay, wait a minute. Sorry for the puns. Next time I’ll pull in the reigns a little bit and not get carried away.

  • 19 Barnstorm // Jun 8, 2008 at 12:09 pm

    #16 &18

    Good thing this blog is a visual medium. If it were auditory by now you might be a LITTLE HOARSE.

    You think we have problems here with school administrators, cupcakes, & ponies? Just be glad you’re not out in Bellevue Ohio.

    http://sanduskyregister.com/articles/2008/06/05/front/783041

  • 20 Anon // Jun 8, 2008 at 12:43 pm

    add .txt to the end of the link

    http://sanduskyregister.com/articles/2008/06/05/front/783041.txt

  • 21 Barnstorm // Jun 8, 2008 at 1:11 pm

    Thanks anon #20

    Once again I was baffled by technology.

  • 22 anonymous2 // Jun 8, 2008 at 3:20 pm

    If she was told not to do it and did it anyway, she deserved what she got.

  • 23 Anonymous // Jun 8, 2008 at 4:19 pm

    #22: But the punishment was disproportionate to the offense. If it had to be a suspension, it could have been a few days, but the administration gave the longest suspension it can legally impose.

    The state legislature has passed legislation that severely limits the power of school administrators to suspend students. However, it has twice postponed the implementation of the legislation. An incident like this could sway them to put the law into effect.

  • 24 Retired from DRG I // Jun 8, 2008 at 5:32 pm

    the ISS/OSS legislation going into effect July 1, 2009 does not limit administrators ability to suspend anyone- it makes them spend $$$ to find space and tutors in school for them and staff to man more rooms of suspended students - instead of sending the work home. that is why the delay was requested- so they can figure out where to put these students- oh you didn’t know there were so many… or mostly repeat offenders… It says that students who show a risk or danger to the school population go to out of school suspension- that is actually what expulsion is for. Then the expelled student gets a small class somewhere that you have to pay extra for. they are not ‘out of school for the year’- just not in the main school.
    And you thought the kids were being punished… no- it’s the taxpayers.

  • 25 Anonymous // Jun 8, 2008 at 6:07 pm

    #24: I wasn’t clear. I meant that it limits administrators’ ability to suspend students out of school. Yes, in-school suspension is still a form of suspension.

  • 26 ShakeNbake // Jun 8, 2008 at 7:14 pm

    Soooo the bartender says to the horse… ” why the long face ” ?

  • 27 Anonymous // Jun 8, 2008 at 7:55 pm

    I don’t mean to nag, but someone should bale her out. I mean, the mane thing is is that you shouldn’t foal around in school and try to stirrup trouble. I don’t know where she got these lofty ideas, but odds are 2 to 1 that she is going to be left out in the colt. I’m sure we are all going to be glued to this story until it unfolds.

  • 28 anonymous2 // Jun 8, 2008 at 8:54 pm

    Don’t do the crime if you can’t do the time. She should have listened.

  • 29 Sarah // Jun 8, 2008 at 9:40 pm

    To the people who think my father and I had “prior warning” from the adjoining middle school security guard and the administration - THIS IS NOT TRUE!!! I am VERY upset that these news stories had this in their articles, and I have no idea where they got this information from…probably the school. The security guard kind of smiled when I showed up and told me that the Staples security guard was at the bottom of the hill. He also told me to wait there a minute while he informed someone from the school I had arrived. THAT WAS IT. As far as the administration warning me, well that is also not true. I found out after I got home that my assistant principal Ms. Morgan had called my mom after she had just woken up to ask her if I was riding my horse to school. My mom said “not exactly” and she asked my mom where I was. But my mom didn’t even know if I was still going to do it at that point because it was raining, so she said she didn’t know. Ms. Morgan then told my mom that I would be in trouble if I brought the horse to school. But once again, my mom didn’t even know if I was stil doing it, and she didn’t want to call me just in case I was on the road with Coco because she knew I would need to pay attention to the traffic. Besides all of this, she was on her way out the door to bring my little sister to school. So no, we in fact did NOT have anybody tell us in advance that we could not bring Coco to the school.

  • 30 Sarah // Jun 8, 2008 at 9:43 pm

    This is really defamation of character because thanks to the media screwing up, people all over the country think I’m an idiot for not listening to the “warnings” that didn’t even EXIST!

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