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Nature Versus Nurture


by turfgrrl


April 6th, 2008 · 13 Comments

Today The Hour provided two editorials that inspired deep thoughts by Jack Handey moments. The first, wraps a contradiction inside of the enema that must have inspired this line:

The authority has major projects ahead, including the redecking of the Haviland Street lot, a project that will undoubtedly cause disruption and pain for SoNo businesses. They don’t need a spin on that,just give them the facts.

So how does the esteemed editorial board of The Hour think that the public will get facts from the Parking Authority? Smoke signals? Already there are questions about how the Haviland Deck repair will impact area residents and businesses. The public too will be affected, its not just the parochial Norwalker that will be impacted. People from outside Norwalk come to SoNo to enjoy the area too.

For some reason, the editorial board thinks a PR person just is about spin. Hrrmm. Wonder why that is. Must be that 1950’s thinking. Modern PR is all about wide and constant communication, which involves far more than typing up a 500 word press release and getting some journalist to run it unchanged.

And then, right next to this anti-communication screed, is a Chris Powell column about crime and presumably spinning and pinning for some repeat offender law. Normally I like what Powell has to say on most topics, but he trots out a few canards that rankle.

When a young unmarried and unskilled woman gets pregnant, there is no shunning her as in the benighted olden days, when such women disappeared to secluded motherhood hostels and quick adoptions followed. Often today there are not even abortions. No, today such women are aggressively shielded against any judgment, moral or practical, and instead are affirmed officially by schools, social workers, and such. They are given food, medical insurance and housing subsidies in the name of helping the children. And nothing is demanded of the fathers.

Must be the women belong back in the kitchen hour at the Hour. They must’ve been sitting around the editorial fires –”Gosh darn, we really yearn for the good old days where we puritan manly men could stone our women who were unskilled and preggers. ”

Just look at the picture Powell is trying to give you, that somehow all the dynamics of life can be swept away so that the “They”, not to be confused with “Them” which involved giant ants, were giving away food, medical insurance and housing subsidies. What’s he implying? That charity, that good old Christian value is a bad thing? Yep, because you can’t paint yourself into the corner of government doing charitable work is a bad thing without tarring the private religious or non-denominational charity work too. And that’s the path Powell took. The Hour agrees, calling our the graf in bold, because, well, it fit in with today’s editorial philosophy, oh-so-well.

The rip roaring canard continues because once you accept that unmarried mothers are getting charity (government no less arm yourself against taxes and flee), you will accept that they must be also be unmarried mothers who are unfit. Which leads you right down to the path of– because father’s weren’t involved, according to Powell; “those children, who are raised in a fatherless poverty that leaves them abused or neglected and eventually crushes their mothers.”

Somehow all those single fathers out there, who raise children in motherless poverty don’t have abused or neglected children. Somehow. Somehow its all about the women here, as Powell continues, “Many girls born into this cycle go on to have their own children outside marriage. And without a father in the home to discipline them, many boys born into this cycle grow up wild and criminal.” Well there you have it. Women just can’t be trusted to raise children alone. With that out of the way, Powell then turns to what the premise of his column was supposed to be about, repeat offenders and the criminal justice system.

Nah, he touches on that briefly, he really wants you to buy into his argument that children should be removed from unfit mothers. Never mind how and who gets to judge the fitness. Never mind that plenty of criminals come from nice upstanding two parent families. Never mind that there’s plenty of unfit fathers out there. Never mind that there are way more unfit two parent households out there. Nope, its all about removing kids from single mothers to “break the vicious cycle.”

Here’s a different picture. One that has schools that actually educate instead of prop up endless testing and bilking tax dollars on bureacracy. One that has communities focus on the resources to provides childcare to working families and single parents of both genders. One that provides basic health care to all families. And roads without potholes. One that values three hots for children more than three hots for the incarcerated. One that accepts that its okay to offer vocational education to children who need job skills.

It’s this last point that is really the issue here. Our cookie cutter society keeps operating on the belief that everyone needs the same type of education. So we try to create an endless school bureaucracy instead of accepting that some children would be better advantaged if they could pursue the training and skills they need to find work in the job market. For some that means an academic path. For others that means a vocational path. We put computers in classrooms, but we don’t offer computer repair vocational training. Focusing on breaking the cycle isn’t about socio-economic status as much as it’s about choices and opportunity. Reducing the broader issue to one exclusively about women and poverty, like Powell has essentially done, doesn’t advance the discussion. It’s just another plank on that retro platform.

Why do we have criminals? Some people just are. Others succumb to the opportunity. There’s no one size fits all solution to the problem of repeat offenders. To blame it all on unmarried women, without any scientific evidence to support any of the arguments is specious.

source: The Hour, Parking agency doesn’t need its own spin doctor, Editorial, April 6, 2008

source: The Hour, Break the vicious cycle — take the kids away, By Chris Powell, April 6, 2008

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13 Responses so far “Nature Versus Nurture”



  • 1 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 9:09 am

    “contradiction inside of the enema” is not what you intended to say, is it? Did you mean “contradiction inside of the enigma”?

  • 2 turfgrrl // Apr 6, 2008 at 9:47 am

    Was going for some good old fashioned bathroom humour there … might not be working.
  • 3 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 11:08 am

    I thought you might have completely lost it! :-)

  • 4 turfgrrl // Apr 6, 2008 at 12:02 pm

    A little craziness is always part of the mix. :)
  • 5 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 12:03 pm

    Parking in downtown Sono will need to improve to satisfy the business owners.Rents are going up what is it now in Norwalk by the square foot?

    Some cities are 40 dollars a square foot.

    The DPW has cut what 10 tons of rubbish off the weekend route and now parking is a concern.

    You think the advertisers in this case out weigh the political ties The Hour maintains. This is a fine line to walk. The article the Hour just did on downtown Sono was ignored by many . Why was that ? It pointed out many probems in the area parking being one of them.It was also had a positive spin to what the new owner Rich was bringing to downtown Sono as well.

    The area will be safer without the Haviland garage for a while it will discourage assaults and handbag robberies when your weekend drinking crowd shows up.

    We need PR for some of the parking areas after a winter of injuries on ice and assaults, robberies and theft at the train station, Haviland and wall st ect parking lots and garages adding to the list are now abandoned cars and the new fiasco of parking cabs in front of the electric and water dept offices.But because The Hour has missed most of those incidents like most taxpayers but now issues are starting to surfice it seems puting out the fires rather than preventing them seems the way Norwalk works.

    Didn’t the guys from NY bakery get hit at the garage? The numerous fights and assualts at the train station has increased a cab driver a couple of weeks ago suffered a broken leg not your regular 5 and dime crimes are they? We as a city have our problems but you won’t read about them for the most part when they happen on the weekend.

    Maybe the PR will tell you not to leave your GPS where it can be seen, maybe the PR will tell you where and when to be careful when parking your car it just may be better than what we are getting from Harry and Dick.

  • 6 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    I don’t understand all this whining about the Haviland lot. There’s PLENTY of parking available at the Maritime garage. The place is tremendously underutilized because it was overbuilt to accommodate Aquarium traffic that never materialized. The walkways to it have been upgraded with plenty of lighting. It’s just that people are too lazy to walk the short distance from it to SoNo. If this were Manhattan, however, people wouldn’t think twice about walking a half-dozen blocks to their destination.

  • 7 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 2:41 pm

    I don’t think whining is the correct term , I agree in Manhattan you can walk a couple of blocks to save money but the difference between the Norwalk lots are substantial in price. There is a 30 to 35 difference between some lots by the month and a couple of dollars an hour which you would know . Maybe if Rich the new owner on Washinton street may be able to make some new in roads with the zoning ,planning and parking boards they are the ones that made Stamford what it is today we will see something positive.

    You want to see Sono prosper then make new rules and give the owners something to work with, parking is going to be a problem and the city knows it so to hire a PR person its like having a pitbull at city halls door.

    tremendously underutilized or simply over priced there are two sides to each story in this case you may find money is the object. Break the price down in drafts and it adds up.With a recession comes volume drinking and burger king simply look at the trash cans at Haviliand not everyone comes for the spectacular food if anything appetizers as others suggested at B J’s

    Sono on the weekends is a drinking crowd period and the business owners know this.

    Maritime

    to 1 Hour $ 2.00 04/28/04
    1 Hour to 3 Hours $ 6.00 12/19/07
    3 Hours to 6 Hours $ 7.00 12/19/07
    6 Hours to 7 Hours $ 7.00 08/16/05
    7 Hours to 12 Hours $ 8.00 08/16/05
    12 Hours to 24 Hours $ 10.00 08/16/05
    Evening Rate (after 5 p.m.) $ 3.00 04/28/04
    Permits: Monthly $ 85.00 02/22/06
    • Restaurant Employee (after 3 p.m.) Monthly $25.00 07/28/04
    Upper Haviland Parking Lot
    0 to 1 Hour $ 1.00 04/28/04
    2 to 4 Hours $ 2.00 04/28/04
    4 Hours Plus $ 4.00 04/28/04
    After 5 p.m. $ 5.00 04/28/04
    Permits:
    Monthly $55.00 12/19/07
    • commercial (Mon-Fri 8a.m.-6p.m)
    Lower Haviland Parking Lot
    Permits: Monthly $55.00 12/19/07
    North Water Parking Lot
    Up to 1 hour $ 1.00 04/28/04
    2-4 hours $ 2.00 04/28/04
    4 hours plus $ 3.00 04/28/04
    After 5 p.m. $ 5.00 04/28/04

  • 8 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 3:10 pm

    Isn’t Turf head of zoning? It seems like she likes the PR hire so what’s your point?

  • 9 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 5:59 pm

    why not hire someone to prevent some of the troubles the agency is creating?

  • 10 turfgrrl // Apr 6, 2008 at 6:37 pm

    anonymous 8: I am the chair of the commission, not head of zoning.

    anonymous 7: I pay $45 on average for my 5-6 hour meetings in NYC, when I drive and park.

  • 11 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 7:39 pm

    A shuttle bus between the Maritime garage and SoNo would work. Maybe one of those open trolley types. Also, they should do reduced-cost parking validation for the Maritime garage and SoNo restaurants.

  • 12 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 8:06 pm

    where are the bike racks located? I’d love to bike downtown and give my space to a visitor. It would help my friends who own downtown business’s.

  • 13 Anonymous // Apr 6, 2008 at 8:12 pm

    Thats not a bad price to pay its what 30 dollars for the train into the city and back and if you have to pay 10 here your about breaking even. Maybe Norwalk needs a better incentive to take the trains and give parking for those going green.

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