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Norwalk: Grassroots Group To Focus On Teens


by turfgrrl


February 6th, 2008 · 21 Comments

Maybe this is a sign that Norwalk’s community is starting to take charge of being part of the solution. While the usual suspects called for the usual platitudes following the murder of Taekwan Hunt, a small group of community leaders decided the usual was not enough.

At 7 p.m. tonight at the Norwalk YMCA, McQuaid and Romano will hold the first organizational meeting of Norwalk Neighbors Helping our Teens, a citywide group that they hope will be based in various parts of the city like neighborhood associations are, in an effort to meet families on their own turf.

“Every time we have a problem in Norwalk, another group starts up,” Romano said. “It helps for a little while, and then people lose interest. We want to bring everybody in.”

She and McQuaid, an early intervention aide at Naramake Elementary School, hope that this time, things will be different. Pleasantly surprised by the interest they’ve gotten from several quarters in the city — demographics that span clergy, teachers, parents and business people — they hope the group has what it takes to stick around and be effective by using a localized approach.

“We’ve actually got to go into the neighborhoods,” McQuaid said. “We could talk all we want tomorrow night and if we go away, shame on us.”The point of tonight’s meeting is mainly to get feedback and organize, the two said, adding that they hope for a good turnout and clarifying insights from local kids and parents.

McQuaid said the idea grew out of a meeting about four years ago, when “we first had tensions with our teens,” at the Word Alive Bible Church. Some of the same people who are now involved with the group gathered there to discuss youth problems but not much came out of it, he said.

As time has gone by, city youth issues have been growing more and more troublesome to McQuaid, and he said he doesn’t want to feel he’s “talking the talk” without “walking the walk.”

“Some of the kids that we were discussing then are some of the victims now,” he said. “It’s starting to really hit home for me because these are kids that I had in school years ago. It certainly is not political for me because this is my life — I’ve got five kids of my own.”

Somewhere along the line, the community let down the kids who have ended up arrested or hurt in fights that involved guns or knives, he said.

Getting into the neighbourhoods and getting people involved is admirable. The police department could do their share by activating a community based policing groups. The troubling signs of a community on edge are all here on the blog. A group of teens does not make a gang, and the only interaction between a police officer and a resident shouldn’t be at a crime scene.

source: The Hour, ‘Neighbors’ pooling ideas to help teens, February 6, 2008.

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21 Responses so far “Norwalk: Grassroots Group To Focus On Teens”



  • 1 Anonymous // Feb 6, 2008 at 8:58 am

    Kudos to the organizers of this effort. We should all come together and support it.

  • 2 Anonymous // Feb 6, 2008 at 9:09 am

    Thank you Joanne and Rick

  • 3 Anonymous // Feb 6, 2008 at 1:14 pm

    NORWALK - Former Republican Common Council member Joanne Romano has wanted to find a way to reach out to teenagers and help them handle the problems they face.

    A 17-year-old from Bridgeport was fatally stabbed in Norwalk after a house party last month, leading Romano to launch a committee, Norwalk Neighbors Helping Our Teens, with the help of a council member and a Norwalk parent.

    But the group will not just target teen violence, she said.

    “It’s not just about gangs. It’s about growing up,” said Romano, who served on the council for two years until November, when she lost a bid for town clerk. “We see a lot of times when there’s a problem; these things crop up, and then you don’t hear anything any more. That’s not what I want this to be.”

    The group includes Republican council member Richard McQuaid and parent Mary Beth Becker. It will hold its first meeting at 7 p.m. tomorrow at the Norwalk YMCA, 370 West Ave.

    Romano said she wants to involve teenagers, teachers and city officials, and is looking to schedule meetings in different neighborhoods. Her ideas include roundtable discussions with teenagers and possibly providing scholarships to high school students who show they are making progress.

    “It’s not going to be adults dictating to kids,” Romano said.

    Residents have long talked about creating a teen center, but McQuaid, who works as an intervention specialist at Naramake Elementary School and coordinates programs for Norwalk Parks and Recreation, said people have to “take to the streets” and remain consistent.

    “What we need to do now is make sure we don’t go away and get the commitment of people who really want to do this,” he said.

    This was from the Advocate Lisa Chamoff was the writer

  • 4 Anonymous // Feb 6, 2008 at 6:53 pm

    those who can attend the meeting starts soon its what they are trying to do warrants our attention no other suggestions seemed like they were working
    least one can do is listen they did say everyones input would be welcomed.

  • 5 pokermom // Feb 6, 2008 at 9:49 pm

    After attending the meeting; I hope that we truly can make a difference within our community to identify the at risk kids and make a change in their lives

  • 6 also attended // Feb 6, 2008 at 10:59 pm

    Excellent! The meeting went well and it got exciting. A young girl was there and she was fantastic. We talked, we listened and gave our concerns and our ideas. Except for one women, I think she is on the council or something, never saw her before. She had nothing but negative comments toward what the coordinators were trying to accomplish. There was so much good conversation and input that I really think this can work. No-one focused on any one group but on teens as a whole and how we as adults can work towards the same goals. There was some scepticism in the beginning but overall I think its going in the right direction. Kudos to Rick, Joanne and Marybeth for taking the time and dedication to get this going. Now we need to move forward and get others onboard.

  • 7 Anonymous // Feb 6, 2008 at 11:17 pm

    positive thoughts is what is needed for the kids the city and yes the blog.Thanks Joanne,Marybeth, Rick and all who are trying to simply make it work. :)

  • 8 WS // Feb 6, 2008 at 11:27 pm

    The meeting was better than I expected, and although I was glad for the turn out, it was a bit of a disappointment to not see more parents there. I agree that the meeting ended on an up-swing, leaving us all with real hope in getting this group up and running! I am truly excited to be a part of it and am looking forward to the next meeting.

    By the way, the young girl was my daughter, and I was very proud of her! Even though she was the only teen there, I thought everyone was really receptive to her thoughts and suggestions. She was totally pumped after the meeting and has already gotten a bunch of her friends to commit to the project.

    I think this is just what our kids need.

    PS: We made it on News12!

  • 9 anon // Feb 7, 2008 at 8:49 am

    Kids and parents alike need this. The discussion was very interesting. The format was well done and no-one felt uncomfortable about speaking out. Some very positive interaction. #6, negativity will not hurt this group. If failure is what some people had expected, it was just the opposite. Enthusiasm is more like it. I for one cannot wait to get this going so we can have a positive impact on the kids in Norwalk.

  • 10 Watchdog // Feb 7, 2008 at 6:22 pm

    Hey, Kids!

    Saw News12 last night and wow.. I’ve gotta say that for a first time “meet,” this fledging committee was considerably impressive in attendance. Can you imagine what NNHT could become within a few short months? Focused goals, sincere concern, and word of mouth may just propel this grassroots group well beyond someone’s fleeting idea. Apparently, Joanne Romano is needed elsewhere and the cards were dealt accordingly. This lady is truly a mover and shaker.

  • 11 Anonymous // Feb 7, 2008 at 9:55 pm

    I’m sorry to sound lost but did the news papers stay until the end of yuor meeting? The articles seemed lean for such an important meeting. Great job to those who put it on.

  • 12 Anonymous // Feb 8, 2008 at 6:49 am

    No media except channel 12, I did see one person in the back of the room that said she was a reporter but didn’t see anything in the papers. Not sure what paper she was with.

  • 13 stop talking-start doing // Feb 8, 2008 at 7:33 am

    What a lame commentary in today’s hour. What forum are they talking about? A bunch of politicians sitting around promising a feel good forum. Hey guys, take a look at what is being proposed at NNHT and maybe try exerting some of your energy to getting involved in that and we might believe you really want to help. Stop popping up when you think you’ll get good publicity and start taking lessons from those who help others without the big lights and flashing camera’s.

  • 14 Andrew // Feb 8, 2008 at 7:57 am

    Wait.. the person in the back of the room was a reporter?! I thought she was a fake reporter. Hmm, go figure.

    lol! j/k.

  • 15 turfgrrl // Feb 8, 2008 at 8:55 am

    Andrew: Maybe that would be a fake fake-reporter :)
  • 16 Anonymous // Feb 8, 2008 at 9:38 am

    My point Andrew was that the media didn’t feel the need to even show up so others would know what a great meeting it was and could get an idea of what they are trying to do. But as #13 said they put some lame commentary in the paper today about a council committee. Why didn’t anyone know about that meeting? How is it that Morris and others get all the glory and then when real people with real concern and real determination, they get pushed to the background. There was no grandstanding at this meeting, only 3 coordinators that sat in the circle and not at the head of the room looking down at people, who allowed everyone to express their opinions and to offer up some ideas. These are the type of people who should be recognized, not for any other reason than they are trying to gather this city’s teens together and offer them some guidance and alternatives.

  • 17 Anonymous // Mar 12, 2008 at 12:31 am

    A significant number of children are already drinking by middle school, suggesting that prevention needs to start in the elementary grades, researchers conclude in a new report.

    As one can see whenever help is offered everyone including all of our politicians should step up to the plate and support NNHT. There isn’t enough time in a day to do it all alone.

    Flax hill is just another step but is as important as the first couple the group has already made. Lets all bookmark the cleanup of the park its all about the kids.

  • 18 Anonymous // Mar 12, 2008 at 1:09 pm

    Take a look at this

    http://nnhtkids.org/teensanddriving.aspx102

  • 19 Anonymous // Mar 31, 2008 at 8:27 am

    Just looking for something on the internet and saw this site so I thought I’d come by and see what they are talking about. This article says alot about those who want to help teens. is there more information on this group? How come I haven’t seen more in the local papers? Sounds like something parents and teens should get involved with and the city officilas should be making every effort to get the information out.

  • 20 Anonymous // Mar 31, 2008 at 9:15 am

    Yeah right!

  • 21 Anonymous // Mar 31, 2008 at 12:13 pm

    #20-???? whats that supposed to mean?

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